I was killing time at the airport the other day, and I did something I haven’t really ever done. I went to the start of a text message conversation. Yep, I went back almost a year ago to the first few texts that my now girlfriend and I sent to each other. It’s funny to read the awkward opening texts, the excitement after the first few dates, and the overt flirtation that is readily apparent in forming relationships.
Last night as we talked on the phone, I reread some of the messages to her. We laughed quite a bit. In remembering the beginning, we realized how much we like the fact that we are still enjoying our present.
And so I think we should all do this during this week. No, I’m not saying you need to find the first few texts or messages in a relationship (although that isn’t a bad idea), but rather, let’s remember why we began on our current path at all.
There is a reason why we joined a certain organization or ran for a certain position.
There is a reason why we have certain friendships or are pursuing certain goals.
So let’s take a moment and remember the beginning. Let’s get fired up about a start and get more excited about our present.
Oh and since you read the whole blog, here’s one of the messages:
November 21, 2010 4:33pm
I know it violates all “guy rules” to contact you before the “3 day rule,” so please forgive this quick text to say I had fun yesterday and I hope you have a “productive” Sunday ; ) talk soon.